The Mirror of Relationships ~ Experiencing Karmic dynamics.

What are karmic Relationships?

Often, we have these relationships to support us as we step into our power, our true sovereign self. We attract souls who show us what hasn’t been integrated within ourselves. The reason we have these experiences is because energetically this is familiar – it mirrors those times where you may have lost your power in other lifetimes.

When we dance with karmic relationships, we are essentially remembering and finding a piece of ourselves - not that the other person holds that piece, but they are mirroring back to you what is not integrated. When we get caught up in karmic loops, we are trying to resolve and heal the original wound.

Your life path is a journey of remembrance to discover who you are beyond the patterns, conditions and stories. You are here to weave a new story into creation as you are stepping out of this old world of limitation and into higher consciousness.

It is often like recurring energy imprints that feel familiar and create discomfort. Therefore, for the soul to heal, it is often necessary to work through this pattern from different aspects for the teaching to be fully integrated. For instance, there may be a recurring theme where you have given up your power through choice or through circumstance - now you may be working to reclaim your power through dynamics that cause similar wounding.

There will often be a strong energy impulse with those who you are here to resolve karma with – it is your unconscious mirrored back to you.  This push-pull dynamic is a signal that healing is needed on a soul level.   

What are soul wounds?

These are threads that have been woven throughout your soul’s journey which expands across many lifetimes on earth, other planets and even other galaxies.

In each lifetime we are learning about ourselves through each experience, for example, maybe in one lifetime you are learning about power, and then in another you are learning about compassion. Overtime, we are learning how to work and integrate all these teachings.

However, we can get caught up in trauma loops where we have been unable to heal and integrate teachings from difficult situations. Therefore, we may get caught up in the same patterns by recreating similar experiences from these soul wounds.

Your childhood is a direct result of these continual soul cycles – your parents and your family may embody the very energies that you have struggled with in other lifetimes, or it may be friendships that are teaching you these soul lessons.

The foundation – why are we born into these family dynamics?  

There is a deeper spiritual reason why you are born into this lineage and this assignment is not random. The energies within your family dynamics represent the patterns and lessons that you are needing to learn at a soul level – this is to support a deeper healing especially if there are unresolved issues that are looking to be balanced.

There can often be a push pull dynamic that can feel incredibly challenging, but also very consuming energetically and emotionally within families with karmic ties. There maybe one or two souls that you may have incarnated with in previous lifetimes to work around a similar issue in order to heal a wound. This is why you may stay in places with people that limit you because this pattern is familiar.

The karmic patterns that play out within your family are also there to support your purpose in this life. It was always designed that we would learn and experience life through limitation, and in many ways, it is the preparation for your soul’s growth. We go through spiritual initiations as a way to expand and learn important lessons.  

We carefully select the souls that we are to incarnate with, and we also choose the lessons that we will be working through within these dynamics. This is why these karmic relationships are intense - these souls know how to unearth soul wounds and trigger you for they mirror what needs healing and integration.  

The level of karma is dependent on each individual and their soul path and therefore, being born into a particular family template holds the curriculum for your soul to work through certain patterns to better understand these core teachings. In doing this, you have the opportunity to heal your family trauma and heal your own soul wounds. Your family, or certainly the energy within your family group can be an echo of your wounds for they show you what needs to be integrated.

Your parents in particular are like keys for they unlock and mirror back to you everything that you have needed to face and see within yourself. They are showing you the wounds that you have yet to acknowledge and equally, you are reflecting back to them their own wounding and karmic patterns. We are now living in times where souls are here to finalise and clear the generational trauma as a collective, to expand the human consciousness and move beyond survival patterns and trauma cycles. 

What if your family dynamics are the gateway to your remembrance?

Perhaps, you have been the emotional container for your family where you could see and feel what was not acknowledged by your family. You were always here to shine a light on those shadows, and it can feel like a big weight to carry as you may have experienced loneliness and rejection with your family dynamics. 

There are souls that identify with being the black sheep of the family or the scapegoat, and the reason being is that you were never meant to fit into that family template. You are here to heal the lineage, to reveal by bringing light to the shadows, and transform the old patterns and wounding by alchemising what has been denied or supressed for generations.

We are now living in a time where we are here to finalise these old cycles, to heal and complete karmic contracts. For many souls, they have incarnated on Earth with a specific intention to experience challenging conditions in an intensive, compressed way as an opportunity to step out of the karmic wheel and to aid humanity in raising the consciousness.